Bringing Healthy-Minded LDS Singles Together
What I wouldn't give to be an organised person. I'm a happy person, a relaxed person, in many ways a competent person, but organised? In my dreams (that's a blatent lie, I'm not even organised in my dreams). I make stabs at trying, but always seem to slide slowly back. The latest backslide was occasioned by my lovely daughter and son-in-law having to move back in with me. They're less organised than me so everything's gone to pot again. Sigh.
It's my place. I'm in charge. They're nice kids, I can (and do) make the rules. Trouble is I'm not a high energy person, the exact opposite in fact - as are they. I've been know to spend evenings staring at the wall because I can't work up the energy to go to bed. You know the type - prone to throw up their hands and say, 'You know what? Never mind, it's all too much effort.'
I did insist when they moved back in that all household tasks will be shared, they take care of their own laundry, etc. The battle of putting things away, fairly quickly and where they belong is currently raging. We have the dishes and the cooking down no worries. We all get along well. If it wasn't for the organisation issue (and money probs of course) we'd be perfectly happy.
So, the organisation problem. I'm thinking if we maybe all took responsibility for one area each for a for a week, then switch round. With an understanding of the upkeep required in that area. We're cleaning up together tomorrow (so we can hang some decs) but we do have an ongoing problem that needs sorting.
I'd call a family council, but first I need to have some clear cut solutions to present, and I haven't got to the clear cut part yet.
Any advice from organisation experts is welcome.
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Written by Julia Simmons for GAGASAINTS, May, 2012
There once was a woman named Rebekah, who was at a well, getting water during Bible times. She had no idea she was an answer to prayers for the man near by. She offered to get him and his camels water. He was amazed at this virgin, who no man had known. Before she left, the same man approached her and asked her who she was, then put jewelry on her, met her brother, went to her house and proposed a plan whereby she would marry the son (Isaac) of his master (Abraham). Yes, daddy Abraham needed grandchildren! After all, he was told he would have a tremendous posterity!
Meanwhile, Isaac went to the field to meditate. To his delight, she arrived, got off the camel, veiled her face and was brought to his tent where she became his beloved wife. He was forty years old when he married her. He loved her. However, she didn’t have children until he prayed to God asking for her to get pregnant. She struggled during the pregnancy and was told by God that two nations wrestled inside of her. Can you imagine? She was told that the younger one would rule over the older one.
However, Isaac favored the older one and would have given him the greater blessing if it was not for Rebekah’s wise intervention. She told Jacob to get some meat so she could cook it and she put together an outfit that would feel and smell like the other son. The younger one, who received the blessing, was named Jacob. She had to warn him about his brother, Esau’s, anger toward him. He was obedient and went to stay with her brother for a while.
Later, she mourned because Esau was not married to righteous women. She begged her husband to help Jacob marry a righteous woman, even if she lived farther away. Her husband listened to her. Jacob married beautiful Rachel soon after. Rachel’s son Joseph was his favorite, so this made his other kids jealous and they sold him to the Egyptians. Meanwhile, Rachel was told that he was dead. While Joseph was in Egypt, she had another son.
Joseph’s children became heirs of great blessings and many of his descendants are Latter Day Saints today. What would have come of all of this had Rebekah not had faith to marry someone she did not know? What would have happened if she had not insisted that her son marry a worthy woman? Would Joseph ever had been born? Would the 12 tribes of Israel even exist (they were created by Jacob’s 12 sons, who he had through Leah, Rachel and their servants).
Rebekah’s faithfulness has helped to bring about millions of lives into the gospel. She did as her mother and brother had hoped when they said, “…be thou the mother of thousands of millions and let they seed possess the gate of those which hate them.” 1. She is likely great grandmother of yours; a mother you can call your own, who loves you, wants the best for you and did all she could to save your soul. Bless Rebekah and may our lives honor her through the way we live our faith today.
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1)Genesis 24:60
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